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Delivery Process
♥ Posted at Thursday, 11 March 2010, 21:52

As promised, here are the photos taken recently..
Do forgive me, cos this post may be very wordy.. ):
Hahas! My darling Yi En has turned 3months on Monday! (:
Time flies. Blink of an eye, he has turned 3months old already.. Soon it's going to be 4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11...and then towards 1 YEARS OLD!

His papa carrying him.. He love people to carry him like this.. He wants to kpo.. lols.
He wanna see what's going on outside the world.. (:

HAPPY 3MONTHS OLD DARLING!
Taken before we go to the hospital for checkup. Yes, both of us.
Sometimes, i'm abit tired to keep going to kkh for checkup. Cos' it is like almost once a month..
Only can blame that i got to know my pregnancy at second trimester. which is like 4months.
Hence, the doc asked me to do a blood test, amniocentesis to see if baby got any down syndrome. Lucky there wasn't any bad news.
That's why when baby boy was borned, the doctors had a closely investigations on him.
About the sis in the kidney, his neck strength, his renal and so on.. ONE word to describe. TIRED.
As time goes by, really prayed hard that one problem will be gone one after another..
Anyway, I'm glad that the sis in the kidney is descending. When the doctor told me that " the sis in the kidney has disappeared, left with just a tiny dot on 1 side." I was like so happy.. Thank God. Bcos of this, went to many doc as the doc refer here and there. Lols. They fear that it may lead to kidney problems in future.. Down with one. Oh Yeah..

10 March. Appointment with my Gynae.
ps: Is my Gynae pretty? hahas. She's even more pretty in person!

She was the one who brought baby to this world.. (: I would recommend to my friends to see her..
She's really good!! hahas! Though, she has only seen me for a few checkup..
I guess without her..I would faint during my delivery..

"Thanx" to dear for taking such a wonderful picture.. He took onli 1 shot. arghh. Promised to take again next year when i go for my follow up..

How's my delivery process?
Everyone should know that 6 Dec'09 was my chinese custom wedding eh. Lunch buffet.
The next day, Dear and me woke up ard 10plus.. His relatives were all preparing to go to sentosa for bbq session. I didnt wanted to go as i'm too lazy to travel as i'm also afraid that baby boy would come out anytime.. As my Gynae told me that baby going to reach his full terms on the 11dec Wed. Yeah, so Dear went to order Mac for breakfast as he was lazy to go out and have his breakfast too. 大姐and表姐 was also lazy to go out that day too.
After our breakfast, played comp awhile and went to lie on the bed.. Was talking to dear on the bed..
Me: Have you decided boy boy's name? Got any names that you liked?
Dear: Don't know ah.. I'm very bad at names..
Me: Alemak.. !@#$%^&* saying all the names that i could think at that moment..
As i've told him that i thought of using 毅恩.Why i wanted this name was bcos.. i wanted him to be royal to his friends/family..毅气. 恩是因为,我想要和老公和儿子,我们一家三口永远都恩恩爱爱。

*After giving birth, we went to find the fortune regarding baby's boy name and they gave me 义恩 this name. I was like.. My mind,brain and heart is telling me that okay..i just want this name and no else!

Finished saying, i felt something discharging below. Thus, i went to take a look. And i saw brown bloody shows..
Me: Am i going to give birth soon? Oh my god.. How?!
Me: Wait, i read through the books. They stated there when i saw shows, i should remain calm and tell myself that i'm going through labour anytime. Therefore, i have to get mentally prepared that i'm going labour anytime.
Then, i text Jiayun and Candy. Told them what happen.. They asked me to go to the hospital.. But i was like.. Eh,I'm not in pain lea.. So i went to computer and check online. It says, labour is coming on the way..

Then, i packed my stuff, cab down back to my house - Holland. Get my admission stuffs. Then rushed back to kkh. They send me to a room, and dear was supposed to wait outside for me.
Inside the room, all you could hear is baby's heartbeat. They gave you something to wear on your tummy to monitor baby's heartbeat. The nurse then come and see how much you have dilate. The nurse told me that the baby's head is facing down already and i've dilate 2cms. They gave me 2 options. 1st: You can go back home first, when you fell pain or anything, you can come back. 2nd: You can do your admission stuffs, stay here and let the nurses observe the situation.
Of cos, I took the 2nd option. It's my first baby,i am afraid of what would happen..so i took the 2nd choice.. Yes, admission is done. So i stayed at the ward doing nothing except watching tv..

Mum came together with Dad to visit me. I told them i don't fell any pain except that there are some contraction in the middle of the time. But it was manageable. Looking at my mum's facial expression, i knew that she's somehow worried for me though she didn't say it out. Still, i can feel it. By looking at her red eyes. They stayed with me till 8plus 9pm,they went off. Aunt called me and asked how i feel..lols. Dear accompany me all the way except that the nurses on duty kept chasing him. But i insisted as i was really scared to be alone. Until really cannot le, Dear went outside to sit.. But i couldn't sleep at all. Lol. Contractions starting to come on and off like every 4min.. Then i asked the nurse lo, the nurse say where got 4mins, is like 2 mins. i was like wadever la.. cannot dong the pain le.. So she sent me down to the delivery ward. I asked dear to join me. So i was asked to change to a set of clothes.. lols. It's like almost not wearing.. ):

They started to put this and that on my tummy. Insert a tube on my hand, yucks! The needle is so thick and long lo. By looking at it, i want to faint lo. I was troublesome also, each time i want to go toilet. I got to call a nurse then they have to stop the baby's monitoring machine,untie the things on my tummy then do it all over again. They somehow don't really like the idea of me going toilet so many times.. I know what they fear for. So every 1/2 hours, the nurse will come and check how much i've dilate.. And i was telling dear, each time when they want check how much i dilate, it feels so terrible la. Told him that for the first time in my life, i felt so scared and pain.. Arghh. Each time their fingers went in,it was like so terrible pain lo! tsk! The contraction was so manageable, just that my legs were so pain that i could hardly sleep a few mins. I was so tired yet i couldn't sleep. So they gave me a injection on the thigh so that i wont feel anything on the legs. It's good for early labours. And Yes, it really helps alot. At least,it could help me sleep for a few hours in between.

Here comes the nurse/midwife on duty came, she's very good. Jokes with me.. hahas. And almost all of the nurses came, they say.. "wa,ur baby is so tiny.. see your tummy above still got alot of space.hahas" My midwife told me that my Gynae will come tml morning to see my condition.. So, my Gynae came at about 9plus in the morning, she told me " hello hui xian, eh wont we supposed to me on fri for ultrasound?" Me: yeah lor..but baby is too excited to come out to see you.. (: Then she decided to burst my water-bag. A gush of water just flow out..Felt the water so warm. hahas. Then they montior.. at about 2plus, they say i've dilate to 6cm.. My reaction was like.. Huh? Why still so slow? I asked the nurse, water bag burst le, baby still can survive inside? I thought the water-bag was supposed to protect baby? The nurse told me as long as it is within 24hours. So they observed until 3pm,they decided to put drip so that i could dilate fast.Indeed, it really speed up! Dilate to 9cm and i can start preparing for pushing.
Hell loads! I told dear, why they can't put the drip earlier on? So i dont have to wait until now.. Dear: 8 Dec would be a nicer date.. FA FA.. i was like.. Okay.. (",)

Just so nice, My Gynae was at the next door.
As her patient is also giving birth soon!! !@#$%..I was like..so qiao?!
My mid-wife told me to start pushing when the contraction comes..
123 push....
AH YES, SEE BABY'S HAIR..
I can't see anything, dear told me..he saw it..
hahas! Feeling was like something stuck down there and you just feel like pushing it all out once and forall.. just like a terrible tummy upset..
Push and PUSH.. Until i was so terrible that i didn't follow the instruction that was told by the nurse to PUSH ONLY WHEN CONTRACTION COMES. Here comes my Gynae.. Asking me to push and push.. She sees that i was like no strength, so she told me that she would use vacuum to take baby out cos she's afraid baby stay inside too long would distress baby's heartbeat. Vacuum is not like those when you are doing household chores.. It's looks like something to clip on baby's head and the doc uses their force to pull baby out..

When baby's out, they showed me and tell me, jamie, you see..it's a boy!! i was like.. my precious is finally out..I started to vomit..All in green. My mum told me i vomited my guts out. True actually, i didnt take anything for 2days..Yet,i can still vomit..lols. What makes me upset was dear didn't cut off the cord between me and baby boy. My Gynae asked him to cut..He say he don't dare =.= Then baby boy was put to one side and the nurses need to clean him up, take his weight,measurements and bla bla..

After pushing baby out, the next one -Placenta.
Gosh, It was like so big lor.. Can't imagine it stays inside for 9months together with baby boy.
Soon after, a male doc and my Gynae came to stitch my below.. tsk! I would somehow feel the pain when they were stitching.. After stitching, i was lying on the bed waiting for the nurses to clean me up.. I told dear, my hair how ah..i vomited some on my hair.. ): Waited and waited.. I asked dear to call my mum.. cos my mum has been waiting outside the delivery room since 5pm with dad.. and my aunties came too. He gave a call to mum and say baby boy is going out too. hahas. Sat on the wheelchair, felt so giddy..gosh!And so pain sitting.. Went back to my ward.. complanning how pain it was,telling my parents that 1 is enough already. And they were laughing. I knew that my mum and dad's eyes were abit red.. As thought they hab cried.. I know they must be heart-aching to see me going through this.. Lie on the bed straight and it's so hard to get myself to see. Cos i cant make any movements. Whenever i closed my eyes telling myself to go to bed, images of the doc stitching my below kept flashing. Arghh. Yet, the nurses asked me to go urine within 5hours after birth. If not, they won't let me discharge the next day.
Couldn't sleep till i asked the nursed for panadol or painkillers.. ): After taking it, felt so much better.. At least i could sleep..

Yupp. My birth experience. (:
To think back now.. Everything was worth looking at how cute baby is now (:



Went to watch "Being Human" at 3pm at cini. It's been so long since i've stepped into a cinema.. My last show was " This is it" on my bdae. hahas! the show was a comedy. Not bad(:
Then walked to Taka and saw there's Baby Fair.. Dear regretted walking there.. Hahas. Cos we've brought a steamer and blender for baby boy. It's a 2 in 1 thing. $199 comes with a $50 voucher.
Then walked to Wisma to get my camera repaired..
Cotton On sales 50% sales.. Went in and get a few clothes.. wahahas! Paid by my own money! hahas. Get a cardigan for $12.50, a top for $10, a pants for mum $10.. Going to hit there again either tml.. hahas. To take my own sweet time and shopp.. Cos that day, dear was there.. and i didn't really take my own sweet time and shopp.. As you (girls) know, if your guy were to stand down there quietly, you will feel uneasy to take your own sweet time and shopp.. So, it's best to shopp with your BFF or alone. (:
Took a bus back home. Dropped at Holland Village to have our dinner before dear went to GWC.


SWENCENS! MY TREAT OKAYS!
I orderd Curry Chix Baked Rice, as usual for him- FISH & CHIPS. Also Prawn Dippers & Ice Lemon Tea.

TAHAHA! My Ice-Cream of the day.
One scoop as i wasnt feel like eating much,plus dear doesnt wanted to eat too.
One scoop of Sticky Chewy with Strawberry fruit toppings.. (:


Time to feed him.. He overshot his time again ): hahas.
It's a long post. (:

♥ One smile, and you got me falling down deep hard!